Today would have been my second wedding anniversary.
I think the only way I want to recognize it is with a quiet moment, realizing that we are both much happier in our individual lives than we were sharing them. We've gotten to the other side. I could always see the other side when I was in the middle of it, but I could never see how to get through. Turns out it's the same way you get through anything tough - if giving up is not an option, than fighting through - saving yourself - is all you have.
If I could send a message to this girl, it would be: you'll get through this. I know you think that you are trapped, and that there is no way out, but you will find your way. Lean on your friends and they will help carry you through. One day, your life will be full of peace and love and for this you will know to be thankful.