Wednesday, December 19, 2012

on pneumonia, farewells, breast implants and grief

Might as well go ahead and make this a things post.  We'll call it "as many things as I want Wednesday."  In order...

1. I had quite a bad cold the first 2-2.5 weeks I was living in Colorado.  You'll remember me complaining about it right after I moved.  I didn't go to the doctor because while I'm not sick all that often, when I do go, I inevitably end up spending $15 for someone to tell me to go back to bed.  My mom (a registered nurse) told me a couple of times that I should go because of how sick I was for so many days, and I made a half-hearted attempt to find a doctor through the impenetrable network of insurance and doctors while traveling, but ended up just staying in bed for four solid days.  I came out the other side healthy and raring to get going on my training.
As you may know, especially if you follow me on Twitter, I had a holiday party last Saturday night and a farewell party this Saturday night which included what I would consider more than a normal amount of alcohol consumption.  Now, I'm not going to pretend that I don't drink at all, ever, because I do enjoy a beer or a glass of wine here and there, but the amount of alcohol that I consumed over these two weeks far exceeds my normal partaking.
Why am I bringing this up?  Well, Monday night after dinner I had a little tickle in my throat, which turned into waking up in the middle of the night shaking with the chills.  I got up and discovered that I had a fever of 101ยบ.  I have never gotten so sick so quickly in my life.  Monday afternoon I was fine, Monday night I was awful.  I called my mom in the morning who used her Stern Voice to send me straight to the doctor, where they listened to my lungs and took a chest x-ray and then diagnosed me with pneumonia.

I'm not a doctor and won't pretend to be one, but apparently after having some kind of infection - upper respiratory, bronchitis, whatever - you can get pneumonia if you trash your immune system with alcohol weren't treated with antibiotics.  At least I think that's what he said.  Regardless, here I am, listening to fluid slosh around in my chest while packing the final boxes in my house and preparing to spend a week in flux, with at least three of those days in the car.  Someone should probably go hug my husband.
It was probably a good wake-up call for me, a sentiment with which Sonja VERY VERY VERY strongly agrees.  I'm a little concerned about what it's going to do to marathon training, but I made a promise after she put me on probation to use this time off from training to kick-start my normal healthy eating habits again.  Lots of water, lots of veggies, no crap.  And here we go.

2. I'm not good at saying goodbye.  I'm not really good at showing emotion in general, and this week has been pretty tough.  I've made sure to have a special date with all of my closest friends, and I'm glad that I had the time to do so, but it's also really hard to say these farewells.  I know that we chose this journey and that this is the best decision for our lives, and I'm happy about moving.  But I've had these women in my life for one or two or ten years, and I don't like knowing that they are not right around the corner anymore.  This part is just plain old sad.  

3. When I was reading through the radiologist's report yesterday, I was shocked to discover something about myself that I had never known.
It took me a minute, too.  I told the nurse that no, I don't have implants, and she asked me if I was sure.  Interesting.  Regardless, they re-checked all the numbers on all the files to make sure there wasn't a mix-up, and there wasn't, and she told me that I probably just have "great boobs."  Um, I'm fairly certain that's neither the answer nor the case.  Ahh, urgent care, you never fail to make me laugh.

4. A lot of bloggers chose a lot of different responses to the tragedy that has recently happened in our country, and most of them have been blasted for their actions, regardless of what they were or how sincere their intentions.  I will say only this: I don't believe that you need to announce your silence to make it meaningful.  I don't believe that you have to broadcast your feelings for them to be validated.  I have been a little horrified by the spectacle that I've witnessed in the media and, in part, on social media - less so by bloggers, more so by major news outlets.  Grief is a very personal thing, and there are an infinite number of ways to send thought and prayer and support and love to those grieving.  Sit with your loved ones, pray to whatever higher power you believe in, and try to contribute to healing in whatever ways you are able - without asking for retweets.

18 comments:

  1. OH NO PNEUMONIA!! So sorry. But this too will pass. I know you will take extra good care of yourself.

    SO WITH YOU ON #4. I actually got a bunch of crap at my work place when I asked our resident busybody to stop telling us every update as it unfolded and that I didn't want to be a part of a conversation about speculating who what why and here's the Answer to all of it. EVIL EXISTS. And nothing will ever stop it completely. Sometimes, there is no capital A Answer.

    For the record, I always thought your boobs were suspiciously awesome. NOW I KNOW THE TRUTH!

    I will miss you tons. And I will come visit.

    ReplyDelete
  2. I will miss having you in DC, friend. I'm hoping that we can figure out a way to meet up in 2013, whether it's in Colorado or meeting somewhere for a big fall race. You are going to have the best life with Thom and your puppies in that big 'ol house. Congratulations and big hugs.

    ReplyDelete
  3. Wow you've had quite the last few weeks!! Get well soon!!!! That is too much, breast implants, well I think you should take that as a compliment :-)

    ReplyDelete
  4. Oh man! I hope you are feeling better.
    I completely agree with your stance on grief. I felt like other bloggers were making me feel terrible because I posted on Monday. Then I saw everyone's 'day of silence'. Which I really did not understand, like who named that day? I had been crying all weekend and didn't feel it appropriate to post about it...it just felt forced, like if I didn't say something about it people would think I didn't care, when in actuality it was the exact opposite.

    ReplyDelete
  5. Feel better, I just got sick this weekend probably from flying....hope it doesn't get as bad as yours, take care of yourself, I know you have a lot going on :)

    ReplyDelete
  6. I hope you get that fluid cleared up soon! That's scary stuff. But, it is hilarious that they thought you had implants. I wouldn't think that would be a typical density to show up on a scan. crazy.

    ReplyDelete
  7. Are you sure you don't have them. I mean. You might and not know. ;)

    Don't get me started on the crazy that the SHES virtual run has become. I keep reminding myself it's for 27 lives that were lost and I'm so thankful to those who are contributing.

    ReplyDelete
  8. I'm also a nurse's kid. We are the worst patients ever. I hope you're on a very speedy road to recovery.

    ReplyDelete
  9. Finally someone in the blogging world that admits to enjoy a beer or two. I literally thought I was the only one. Glad you had a fun time!

    ReplyDelete
  10. Katie! I'm sorry you're sick! That's a bitch when you're moving! I hope you start feeling better soon!

    Re the breast implants...I always knew there was something ;)

    Thank you for your #4. I don't see how a "Blogging Day of Silence" is going to help anyone grieve. This tragedy is incomprehensible to all of us and while none of us can even begin to imagine the pain and grief that this community is undergoing, we're all grieving in our own ways.

    <3 you to pieces and I'm so so happy I got to see you this weekend!

    See you in April, friend ;)

    ReplyDelete
  11. Ok. As someone who took that silent day on Monday, let me just say this: I didn't link up, I didn't tweet, I didn't broadcast. I wasn't looking for praise. I simply stayed quiet for a day as MY way of showing some respect. I felt I had nothing worthy to say on that day that hadn't already been said by others. I have no beef with anyone who did anything different. That's what it's about--finding what works for you. Not judging others on what works for them.

    ReplyDelete
  12. Pneumonia is no joke. Take good care of yourself and enlist the good care of another :) Hope you're feeling good soon.

    The medical pronouncement that you had enhancement without your prior knowledge must have certainly come as a surprise. Perhaps during some heavy 'partaking' you had work done? Happens with tattoos all the time. They're kind of the same ;-)

    ReplyDelete
  13. Moving across the country with pneumonia doesn't sound fun at all. I hope all the puppy snuggles have healing powers!
    Sorry I couldn't make the party on Saturday. It would have been nice to meet you and your lovely puppies.
    bwahahahaha breast implants!!

    ReplyDelete
  14. Good thing we're being reassured that those radiology scans work so well! Yay, technology!

    Hoping you feel better soon & enjoy the probation - ahem, relaxation / time off - with the family & puppies ;) safe travels & try to get through the midwest quickly!

    ReplyDelete
  15. Because I'm behind the times, I didnt even know Monday was a blogging day of silence till after the fact. Who decides and how do you get included on the list to know these things?
    I agree with you - everyone has their own way to grieve and to sow compassion.

    ReplyDelete
  16. To do this, it is better that you just look into the background of the prospective loan
    provider on Better Business Bureau's website pay day uk right now, there is certainly controversy over payday advances and few state reps are generating an effort to shutdown the sources.
    My webpage: pay day uk

    ReplyDelete
  17. Estrogen given on its own stimulates the growth of tissue in the uterus and is believed to promote uterine cancer, which is why birth control pills and hormone replacement therapy normally contain progesterone to counter estrogen's effects on the uterus. breast actives reviews

    ReplyDelete
  18. For additional tips on breast plastic surgery and breast implants visit http://www.skindelhi.com/breast_implant_enlargement.html

    ReplyDelete

COMMENTS. ARE. LOVE!