sucker punch
Thanksgiving is a difficult holiday for most. It is usually many more people in one place than is easy to handle. Someone ends up spending all day in the kitchen working their ass off so everyone else can enjoy a nice meal. It can be tough - especially in families, where we tend to fall into old habits about relationships - tempers flare easily and feelings can be hurt. Family relationships have always been difficult for me, and while I think things have improved over the past few years, it is easy to regress. Like many, I am sure, I felt stress while I was home. I vented about this stress in a place that I thought was safe. I said things that I was feeling - things that I could never, would never express out loud, but things that I could vent about, even overreact about, and then let go, send spiraling off into the universe to then breathe more easily with these negative thoughts out of my head. And once I had let go, it was so much easier t...